When i play save i get destroyed but when i play aggressive i win most of my duels is anyone like that?

Can a visualize sound effects setting be added pls I am half deaf so I can’t hear directions and it would be really useful for people like me and deaf people

I've been playing for 3 months pretty consistently, and I love this game. But recently I've just found it so hard to improve on my gameplay since it seems like I always encounter toxic players, or if not just transphobes who will harrass me...