Is it better to play more passive or aggressive on each side? I’m just really confused right now because I always get stomped when I was stomping

​ since i play a lot Kay/o and i heard his "toaster" voice line and i came out with the idea, idk if someone has done something similar, here is it anyway https://preview.redd.it/gmx7jv9vow291.png?width=417&format=png&auto=webp&s=b...